If you are the parent or caretaker of someone with autism, you may be like me and must fight off resentful feelings at every turn. I’ll admit, by nature, I tend to hold grudges. Maybe it was the way I grew up. Maybe it’s something in my brain…in my Dinna (DNA) as the wife puts it. Whatever the cause, I’ve had to fight off the unhealthy craving to harbor resentments for most of my life.